I found
this interesting journal of someone's first experiences in the SCA, and she includes some great advice for newcomers (I think around about page 3) that I really agree with, and it got me thinking about all the mistakes I made (and still make, ha ha) in the SCA. If I had it all to do over again, I'd do a lot of things differently. Here we go, in no particular order.
Borrow garb or make yourself one outfit rather than spending tons of time and money on garb at first. While there's no way to learn how to make stuff without actually making stuff, you are basically guaranteed to hate your all of the first outfits you make. I made myself many horrible cotton tunics when I was learning to sew. I'm glad that I learned to sew on cheap fabric, but I wish that I had instead put that time into getting one really good outfit together. Buying clothes is also, I am told, a huge waste of money. If you don't know how to sew, and you just want to have something to wear to events while you figure out your persona, borrow clothes. Gold Key is a great and often under-used resource!
If you can't or don't want to borrow clothes and you know nothing about sewing, find a decent costumer and enlist their help in making yourself one linen
tunic. Use either 100% linen or a linen/cotton blend (rayon is icky) -- shop sales or try www.fabrics-store.com -- in a non-threatening color (colors achievable with period dyes include blues, greens, yellows, reds, pinks, oranges, and browns). Buy a bedsheet from a thrift store and sew yourself an undertunic (you can either use the period pattern or just make a
T-tunic). If you're a man, buy some baggy linen "lounge" pants (you'll probably have to shop in the women's department, but I've frequently scored these at thrift stores). Accessorize tastefully: some kind of hat or headcovering (back to that costumer for help), a belt from the thrift store, and plain-looking leather shoes (Birkenstock-type sandals, clogs, leather slippers, "UGG" boots or their knockoffs, or anything else that isn't screamingly modern), and you'll look surprisingly period and fabulous.
When it comes to your encampment and gear in general, don't feel like you have to have everything perfect (or even just have everything) your first year or two in the SCA. It's easy to spend PILES of money trying to get all the perfect gear, only to realize that the dishes you bought won't survive being jostled in a basket or the pavilion you bought (or made yourself) is impossible to set up and too small. Throw a blanket over your cooler and a tablecloth over that card table and get yourself a wooden folding chair. Use wooden dishes from the thrift store. Hide modern things under the table. I believe that everyone should strive for an authentic encampment because I think that "living it" for a weekend is what makes the SCA fun, but I think that waiting a season or two before you plunge into actually assembling the things you need for said encampment is prudent.
When it comes to tents, if you have a modern tent, use it and dream for the days when you'll have something better. Help people set up their medieval tents, take tours of them, and find out what are the pros and cons of each design. Learn from the experiences of others! If you have no tent, either buy a cheap modern one or find someone to camp with who will let you share space in their tent. There are many period-looking dayshades that are remarkably easy to make, the simplest being some 2x2s with nails in one end holding up a painters drop cloth purchased from the hardware store, all of this supported by ropes and stakes. I'll admit that I haven't ever made a dayshade, but it is next on my list. I generally think that trying to disguise a modern dayshade is a waste of time and money, as they still look modern; buy a cheap one and plan your upgrade.
Ask a million questions. This will help you learn more about the culture of the SCA, it will also help you develop a persona and find interesting things to do. Try these: Why does that guy have a white belt? What do you do if you see someone with a crown? I love your outfit -- can you tell me about it? What's that you're working on? Oooh, this is delicious, how did you make it? Where did you get that beautiful bowl?
A word of warning, though: Don't ask someone if something you have created is authentic if you can't handle the answer being "no." While it is discourteous for someone to offer up their opinion without being asked, it is also discourteous to ask for an opinion and then decided you didn't really want it. As kind of a corollary to this, don't be freaked out when someone offers polite correction if you make a social gaffe. The SCA has some customs that are probably pretty confusing at first ("Why is it okay to call someone my lord Newguy but not Lord Newguy?" and the like) but that we tend to take pretty seriously. If you call the king "Your Highness" and someone politely, kindly, and privately corrects you, don't get mad, thank them for helping you! (If they are rude, cruel, and make it public, you should still respond with courtesy but it's understandable to be peeved.)
Okay, that's all for now, but I may revisit this topic in the future. How about you? What do you wish someone had told you and what advice would you offer to newcomers?